BODY LANGUAGE - UNDERSTANDING AND RIGHT USE!

Hello friends!
Surely each of us understands the importance of Speaking - a communication skill in each person's daily
life and work. So what should we do to achieve high efficiency in communication with the necessary
requirements to be a good communicator: confidence, sociability, optimism and self-respect as well as
respect the other person.
Language is an essential and mandatory means of communication. Without language, people will not be
able to communicate, so one must practice to be able to acquire good language skills when
communicating.
In addition to language - our voice - the language of body activities is also an effective type of language
used to support the expression of emotions, support for speakers as well as listeners to understand.
things that are not expressed through language. So what is body language?
Thus, we can understand that body language is the behavior of the body, the actions of hands, feet, the
whole body, facial expressions, eyes, lips, mouth....transparent. communication process.
It is not natural that my grandparents taught me "the eyes are the window to the soul", because only
through the eyes of the opposite person can sometimes understand the true feelings of the person who is
communicating with them. : love, hate, indifference, indifference, enthusiasm, passion, cheerfulness or
happiness. Maybe you don't understand much about body language but I'm sure, there are times, in the
process of communication, when the other person acknowledges something to you but your feelings
about that recognition are completely opposite. On the contrary, you are thinking they are not being
sincere, you are thinking they are hiding something from you. Perhaps in many cases, your hunch is
completely correct, because you are sensing that in addition to verbal language, the other person is
expressing non-verbal language, and those non-verbal language helped you feel the credibility of their

words. That is body language. So how to use body language effectively and read the other's body
language to help the communication become successful?
The first point: to understand the body language of the other person you need to pay attention to not
only their words but also their body language behavior. The points that you need to pay attention to are,
eyes, hands, face, gait, standing and sitting.
First of all, the eyes. The eyes of the opposite person help us understand them a lot more than we think,
friends because eyes are one of the strongest indicators of a person's mood and intentions.
Does the other person look you straight in the eye when talking? Looking directly into someone's eyes is
understood that the speaker is showing his sincerity in his words. Looking straight with resolute eyes
shows determination, looking straight with angry eyes shows that they are very angry with you and only
you, looking straight with gentle eyes showing love Show that they have feelings for you, they love you
very much. Just like that, it can be understood that, just looking straight, but with many different
messages.